WE BUILT THIS BECAUSE DATING NEEDED TO BE DONE DIFFERENTLY.
We live in a culture that says keep your options open, avoid commitment, lower your standards, and chase chemistry over character.
We believe relationships were designed for something greater — rooted in purpose, commitment, and covenant.
Red Flag Green Flag exists for the men and women who still want that. People who are intentional. People who desire marriage. People ready to build something on more than just a feeling.
This wasn't created to manufacture drama, chase clout, or make a mockery of relationships. It was created to ask one honest question:
What happens when people pursue dating with honesty, discernment, and covenant in mind?
OUR MISSION
WHAT WE BELIEVE
Attraction matters. It's just not enough. A relationship can survive without chemistry for a season. It can't survive without a shared foundation. Faith, family, purpose, values, and calling are the things that actually determine whether love lasts — so those are the things we make room for.
Honesty isn't the exception here. It's the standard. No games. No guessing where you stand. Every conversation gets said out loud, and every flag — red or green — gets named instead of implied.
Red flags don't disqualify you. Ignoring them does. We're not looking for perfect people. We're looking for intentional ones — people willing to be fully known, discernment and all.
WHY THIS, WHY NOW
This isn't just a dating show. It's an experiment in intentionality — a direct challenge to a culture that taught us to date for convenience instead of covenant.
We believe there are still thousands of people across the country who are tired of confusion, tired of games, and ready for something real. Red Flag Green Flag is the space we built for them.
"We're not looking for perfect people. We're looking for intentional ones."
MEET YOUR HOSTS
Siblings. Co-creators of Red Flag Green Flag. The ones who analyze every profile, unpack every Prospect, and break down the flags before the experiment even begins — joined each season by a guest expert.
READY TO BE PART OF THE EXPERIMENT?
Every season starts with one pool of applicants. All of it starts with a single application.
HOW IT WORKS
Each season, one person — The One — meets seven Suitors selected for her. Every conversation is real. Every decision is spoken. After each round, The One responds with a flag: green to move forward, red to go home.
No mixed signals. No "we'll see." Just an honest answer, given face to face — covered in prayer, from the very first conversation to the final one.